We all live a life seeking to be successful, happy and feeling good with oneself. Unfortunately for most of us this is not the reality, if so how can we boost our confidence back after failure and set backs.
How can we boost back confidence after so many tries with disappointments, and setbacks ?????
Lots of good ideas and desires but not good accomplishments??
Confidence the best medicine to kill the disease called failure!
Before talking about failures and setbacks, let us discuss what success really means.
To you what does success mean? Is it 100% marks in examinations, a well paid job, two or three storied house, luxurious living? Or else what?
How To Boost Your Confidence?
If you ask me what success is, I may say that success is nothing but a mirage. Each time you may find it, but that’s not the end. There is something more that you have to go for. No story is a complete success, and none is of complete failure.
It is not necessary to be successful to live worthily. And failures should never be the reason for your low performances ahead in your journey. Your failure may be a mere dream for someone else.
Although it is common to feel less confident and worthless after a failure. This may be because of the fear of failing again or humiliation from people around you or self evaluating that you are not fit for the process. It is natural to feel this way. But it is natural to feel the other way too, only if you let it. We can’t give up. We must boost our confidence back.
If you are constantly failing to overcome your failures mark this down. Your dreams are so much attached to your soul. Just one act or more acts, one result or more, one person or a group of people, or even the whole universe is not worth to judge and define you. Your state of completing your goal should be focused on your happiness. Perhaps getting compliments and humiliations should just be a flavor to your achievements.
So, How to bring back your confidence after failures setbacks?
The most important thing is that whether success of failure do never stop trying. As APJ said “Don’t take rest after your first victory because if you fail in second more lips are waiting to say that your first victory was just luck.”
Be more intelligent to think that no one became successful within a blink of eye. You are still a child who falls often before stepping your foot strong on the ground.
Understand this, no one feels the heat of fire burning inside you like you do. Don’t blew it out in the name of failures or setbacks. You are not meant for that.